so, this is me.

wanderlust

a strong desire to travel

I am not sure you could think of me without first thinking of how much I am at home when I am away from home. Sense of not belonging anywhere and not owning anything frees me immensely. I don’t belong to anyone, and I don’t belong anywhere. I am where I am and what I am now. I like my life simple and clean.

I like to get nostalgic for the places that I have been. Distinctive smell of heavy air, sound of waves, and memories of sharing tasty meals and wandering around parks holding hands with someone special- these are the things I live for.

quirk

an aspect of somebody’s personality or behavior that is a little strange

I get very curious about life. I am sometimes a little too curious, and you might think I am quirky. I am a product of over-education and a soft life. I have two masters degrees, and nothing excites me more than getting to know people and their lives.

I am rarely shy. Looking straight into your eyes and asking questions that you might not have ever been asked. You might find your face flush. You are asking yourself “Who is this girl?”

I find it endlessly refreshing to say what’s on my mind. It might not be the best strategy to ‘win friends and influence people’ but I find that it makes for a much better start to any relationship. Why complicate things? Don’t we all live once? Shouldn’t we be more honest with our own feelings?

indulgence

the state or act of having or doing whatever you want

Working hard is important, but I want to live. I want to do what I want, when I want. I might not have lived for a long time but I have leaned that I don’t want to regret. It’s important to treat yourself.

You won’t find me spending time in a place I don’t want to be or with people I don’t want to be with. I know that it sounds selfish, but for me there is only one way to live.

in short

height - 5’ 3’’

shoes - 36

dress - XS

eyes - brown

age - 30s+ Asian= forever 20s

pride - my 32D, 2 MScs, 16m2 garden

scent - lavender, frankincense, fresh citrus peel

color - black

ideal date - crisps in bed